where do i start??? Relationships can get so confusing to me at times,,,,,I have a girl friend we known each other over a year now we had our problems i will say that we broke up at one point and got back together. She is really sweet honest kind and most of all Friendly this is where my problems start she loves to chat and chat and she will with anyone any age she likes chatting to guys older thn her i dont know wat the topics are i only know wat she tells me and i have to trust her right she is open and honest,but it bothers me and i dont know why i been cheated on before and maybe thats my problem i dont know should i be worried is it just my paranoia. I dont know how to react sometimes and i dont want to distrust her or cause any problems between us so seriously don't know wat to do
Any one got some encouraging word to help me understand love and relationships i really am bad at it haha
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2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

I am told by my Man I am the same lol, I will and do chat to anyone especially Men older than me.. But I am upfront about it... I don't give huge details as sometimes that person dose not want his/her private life gossiped about ...
What can I say.. I am happily married and only chatter to fill time and get to know others...
Other women take it further, it's a difficult thing, as you can not be another's head... All you can do is trust her, I am sure even you would know the signs if she was starting to cheat on you...
Can a woman be allowed to have flirtatious chats with guys online when they are in a relationship... Is it still cheating, or just harmless banter...
Your living this, it's ultimately what your willing to put up with, and how much you trust her...
If your asking on here your alarm bells are ringing somewhere in your head...:0/

If she is telling you about it, it probably means she's not doing anything wrong because if she was she'd be doing everything in the world possible to hide it. Right? Don't worry. She just sounds very social! :)