To Move Or Not to Move...that Is the Question

I currently live with my boyfriend of 5 months but I also have a house I am renting. My lease is up the end of this month and I am thinking about moving back into it. There are many reasons why I want to move in...a. for my own sanity, I am not super comfertable at his house, its his things and its right next to my ex husbands house. b. I want him to pay more attention to me and I think if I seperate myself from being around him all the time that may happen. I may just be fooling myself though. Here is the issue, my friend needs a roomate and I was all for moving back home until my boyfriend came up with some very strong points as to why I should stay with him. Well I have had my hours cut at work and I would save so much money living with him, and well he doesn't want me to go. My friend came by the house last night (my house) and fell in love with it then added "make sure you really want to do this" that right there is making me think twice about the situation at hand.

I woke up this morning at my boyfriends house and he had a candy wrapper shaped in a heart and it said "Trust with your heart, not your head" ...that leaves me saying ...hmmmm. I need some kind of input. Do I stay or do I go?

Not to mention if I do move out I am already expecting to only stay there 3 nights out of the week. my boyfriend works from 3-midnight Tues - Saturday...so the other 4 I will be at his house. I'm very indecisive right now (if you can't tell)

itslikeanorexia itslikeanorexia
31-35, F
3 Responses Mar 6, 2009

Don't depend on a man financially ever.especially so early in a relationship or they.think they can control you and you will feel stuck. If he's a nice guy you plan on staying with I don't see the point in moving out if you'll be there majority of the time anyway. Just take a couple weekends to yourself in a hotel or something

I THINK U SHUD STAY HE MAKING EFFORTS FOR U 2 STAY AND EVEN YOUR FRIEND FEELS THAT U DON'T REALLY WANT TO GO

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