I Really Need Advice About This Guy...I've written about him before, but not gotten much response. What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him? I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does, and sometimes he doesn't. Should I also be so blunt as to tell him that I was in love with him back then and haven't gotten over him? He's got a girlfriend now, blah blah blah... I need to know the answers to these questions.