I fell in love with someone 12 years ago..had to part ways and we both ended up getting married to someone else and have 2 kids each. He struggled with losing me then.. as I did him. We reunited recently- one time physically. He lives in another state. We both "love" each other...still...but he is unwilling to change his environment... I just don't know how to make sense of it all. I have been married for 8 years in a life-less marriage...with immense feelings for "him". Just trying to gain perspective on this...never thought it would happen to me...
anewme12 anewme12
41-45, F
2 Responses Aug 26, 2014

Another option - maintain and enjoy a long-distance, occasional meeting, relationship.

Seems to be the only option right now.. other than ending it which I would hate to do..

I know it's easy for me to say, but give him an option to change or your done. Like I said easy for me to say.

You mean give "him" an option to change or my husband?

To change

Him