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I Need Emotional Intimacy But I'm So Afraid

I let him in, I told him everything. He held me, he kissed me, he cherished me - all just so he could get inside and tear me to pieces from the inside out..I don't know how to stop the pain.
momentsofsadness momentsofsadness 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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mos ~ Courage Now! You will be fine...this will teach you the Wisdom of Discernment...but you must Not close your Heart off...it's just Love's Challenge called The Test of Power that each Individual's Soul must face..."Will you Break...or will you become Ever So More Deeply Beautiful & Loving?" Soul Discernment is The Reward...You can never stop believing in Pure True Love, even when in a Storm of Despair! It is Always There...use your now-sharper discernment and find It.

Thank you dragonflydreams...you make me stop to think that there might be hope :)

When you have someone who is a firestorm and wreaks you but then never disappears and continues to insist they love you more than anything it's even worse. You can be off the hook here, take the lessons and wait for the hurt to fade a bit, then join the world again. Hope you feel better soon.

We go through some rough sh*t in our lives. But I am always of the mind that what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger...so the next time someone wants to come and push me down again...I'll just be that much stronger to get up that much faster and dust myself off quicker. ;)

I'm a guy, so it may be surprising that a dude would be sharing ur pain. I've been heart broken so many times and the pain is always different. I know u're hurting, but it's gonna help u in the long run...I mean in terms of guiding others in ur situation. The funny messed up thing is that this world is so round, so what one bad girl did to a good guy turned his heart into darkness and when he found a good gal like u, his sad past poured over on u and u became a part of that cycle in love's pain. Once u can understand how this works, u can try to love again, just maybe this time what's gonna be different is u can lend an ear to listen to his sad stories and then u may know what may come ur way. Cheers!

I'm a guy, so it may be surprising that a dude would be sharing ur pain. I've been heart broken so many times and the pain is always different. I know u're hurting, but it's gonna help u in the long run...I mean in terms of guiding others in ur situation. The funny messed up thing is that this world is so round, so what one bad girl did to a good guy turned his heart into darkness and when he found a good gal like u, his sad past poured over on u and u became a part of that cycle in love's pain. Once u can understand how this works, u can try to love again, just maybe this time what's gonna be different is u can lend an ear to listen to his sad stories and then u may know what may come ur way. Cheers!

I know it hurts like hell right now. When you find the right guy to love you more after lovemaking than before, well, it will be wonderful. All the hurts will be gone and you will have the most marvelous feeling in the world. You are on the right track. Just sometimes we get derailed before we find the true happiness. Just give it some time and focus on your dreams of the future.