I Need Emotional Intimacy

I Want To Be Loved

By: Sloan806

Written on January 11th, 2013

I just wish my husband would understand that I need to be help and want to feel like he loves me still. For him loving me is just to have sex and that shows me enough. I want to feel like he still wants to hold me and kiss me. I need to be held from time to time and feel like he wants me for me not just for sex.

By: Sloan806

Age: 26-30 , Female

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20 responses

Manwithabigsmile

I understand how you feel; if given the chance I would hold you.

Jan 23
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AllStarcrushNate

Why don't you tell him that.

Jan 15
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- Sloan806
  I have tried .... over and over
  
  Jan 15
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- AllStarcrushNate
  And he says........?
  
  Jan 15
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- Sloan806
  That he will try to change
  
  Jan 16
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hishelper

My DH was the same, but then I started to become more of a traditional wife, and he changed, he shows me love, pampers me. Before I thought that he hated me, but now there is no question that he loves it.

Jan 11
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SurfStyle

You sound like my wife. I work all the time and never have any time other then late nights on some weekends to spend time with her. Im not at all like typical guys, I could easily go a month or longer and not think about sex. She feels like its her and sometimes gets extremely depressed. I feel bad and understand what it is she is upset over but it doesn't change my schedule. We just need the money.

Jan 11
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- Solelyme
  But don't you love her enough to want to make her feel good. You know how she responds to your touch, even if you are not in the mood. Just to let her know you are thinking of her and care. Is that too much to ask?
  
  Jan 11
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- SurfStyle
  Oh no, not at all. I do everything in my power to make her happy. I just know it still isn't enough for her
  
  Jan 11
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- Solelyme
  I love him so much and want to reach out and touch him. Sometimes he is accepting but most times he is not. I cannot understand what is so wrong with me that he doesn't want to touch me.
  
  Jan 11
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- SurfStyle
  Why do you automatically assume its you?
  
  Jan 11
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- Solelyme
  That's what he asks me. I don't know, he used to love me and want me, and now...nothing.
  
  Jan 11
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- SurfStyle
  Its easier said then done of course but if you guys could find some sort of new common interest maybe it would rekindle things. That's my ultimate goal here on this site. I anonymously confessed my secret turn ons to a million strangers to see what the general consensus was about them in hopes to gain the courage to open up completely at home.
  
  Jan 11
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- Solelyme
  We used to have a lot in common, now he just begs off and it is just me and the kids.
  
  Jan 11
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- SurfStyle
  Im sorry to hear that. What do you think went wrong?
  
  Jan 11
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- Solelyme
  No idea or I would try to fix it. He cheated, gave that all up, focused on me for a spell and now still has no interest in me.
  
  Jan 11
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- SurfStyle
  Oh that's not good........ I feel for you and I wish I had some better advice. Im just trying to fix my issues before they cause a problem. I hope my idea is the right one but I won't know until im comfortable enough to talk about them.
  
  Jan 11
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- Solelyme
  Good Luck with your issues.
  
  Jan 11
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- SurfStyle
  Yea you too! I really hope he comes back around and goes back to being the old him.
  
  Jan 11
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- SurfStyle
  What is your opinion with my approach to spicing things back up? You've been married longer to me and I don't claim to have things all figured out yet.
  
  Jan 11
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