Need A Friend.....

I live 2000 kms away from my home, have been living that way for the last five years. Now is the first year of my college. It feels too sad when people go home for 2 days or 5 days and you can't go because your home is too far, and I miss my old friends. Here in college, I don't know why people don't help me even though I help them. I feel lonely. My roommate has decided to shift with someone else next year, even though I helped him through some really tough times. I have friends to talk via phone, or friends in my hometown. But I need friends around me......who help you because they want to help you, and like you......

HELP ME. My grades are going down. I am most of the times upset even though I am smiling.
lonestar1991 lonestar1991
5 Responses May 10, 2011

i'm in the same situation i'm also in college and i'm going to be a junior next semester i can't really say i have friends since when school is over no one call me or wants to hangout... im here if you need someone

I understand the feeling. It was really hard for me to find friends in my first year as well and I had thought that college was the place where you would find your best friends. I know it is pretty cliche, but you have to join some clubs or talk to some people in your classes. Since you'll see those people the most, you'll have a better chance of bonding with them. It takes a lot of motivation and courage, but just try striking up a conversation with someone and though it may take many tries to find the right person, it will be worth it in the end. There is someone out there!

Thank you. Same thing happens with me. I also can't find people whom i like. The people who I want to be friends with will be friends as long as they need me, and then give excuses like they are busy, or they need their space. Nobody cares about returning favors, or even a friendship gesture for that matter. Its really sad.

Hey I know what you're going through. I'm currently ending my second year at uni and till today I haven't found a single person that I can actually call a real friend. I have a boyfriend and I have friends but they're in different countries. I am a friendly person and I do make an effort but I feel missed out on some major ceremony during which everyone found their crowd and I got left out.

maybe i can be ur friend. which college/uni do u attend? where r u situated?