On my second marriage. I'm 49, she's 42. We've been together since 2005 and married since 2007. We have a 4 yr. old son and that's about the time our relationship started to fizzle. Let's just say we are so far apart, we don't even sleep together. The last time we had sex was the 2nd or 3rd of January. I love her dearly but the fact is she doesn't love me. If I were to leave her today she'd get over it instantly. I know what your'e going through...
Anytime you need to talk, just email me I will listen..My marriage is still going on, but I have been through so much over the last 20 years...its so hard....so anytime emial me!
I'm sorry for your sorrow. You are certainly not alone here. Many of us have suffered at least one divorce. If you need to talk I do listen and speak my mind.