My Girlfriend And Her Crazy Mother

I met this girl in February on skype, we chatted and she told me she would like to meet me, so one night we met at a pool bar, and i fell for her, she was so beautiful.

So we started seeing eah other, she told me she has a bf, but that he cheated on her some time ago, so now she meets guys online and goes out with them, she told me she has been with older rich guys as well, she is 24, she drinks alot too.

When i was with her her phone would always gets sms from guys looking for her wanting to know what she is up too, and here i was crazy about and just overlooked these guys, but eventually i started feeling insecure, and yold her to choose, its either me, or those other guys and her bf that does not care about her..she chose me

Well i met her parents, they liked mem, but she warned me about her old school mother, her mother is always rude to her and trieng to control her, unfortunately i never saw this behaviour, even her sister and her sisters husband warned me about their evil mother


Anyway likei said she liked drinking and drinks just becasue ans she used to smoke weed, but stopped cause i told her i dont like seeing her all so silly and high.

Well time went on and we love each other, we started talking bout getting a place together, she told me i would need to ask her mother first, i told her your 24, not a child, but she inisisted

Anyways so last week, without telling her i went to her mother one morning before work to ask her mother is we can get a place together, her mother said no, i prefer her to get married first thn you can move in together, i accepted and moved on, anyways my gf tells me her mother phoned her throught eh course of teh day to tell her what i did, and her mother even asked her if she must speak to a priets (crazy mother, my gf just laughed it off and said no, that wont be nessacary, her mother seemsed all fine

Anyway later that evening she phones me telling me she needs a place to stay cause her mother just argued with her now and actually tried to fight with her, calling her a ***** and saying im using her for sex (crazy mother)

She told me she locked herself in her room and did not even shower cause she was scared her mother would try smething again, i told her to come spend the night at my place, so wecan talk about this craziness, she said no its fine




The next morning she wakes up early and packs her clothes, even got up early to shower before her mother picks an aguement again, so she is now done showering and packing her clothes in her car, her motehr is actually helping her pack her clothes in her car, even threw a dumbell at her (crazy mother), and her motehr shouts it all his faulty (my fault), what did i do, i just loved her thats all?



Anyways now she is living with ehr sister, but wants to get a place of her own, she wants me to live with her but says she doesent want her mother to find out, i told her she has to decide cause i dont want her mother hating me forever cause i went against her word and moved in with her daughter, but then again she does not want to go home adn be treated like **** by her mother, she tells me her mother is always negetive and belittleing her?



What do i do as a boyfriedn in thi situation (she tells me she drinks so much cause of all the stress her mother causes her



Im sad cause this bothers me alot this whole situation...any advise will be helpfull



i do love her alot (her sister went throught the same craziness even at the age of 33)

deco12 deco12
26-30
1 Response Aug 2, 2010

Maybe you should take a step back and think.. is it worth feeling like you are in competition with those other guys she talks to? Do you trust her? Can you deal with her family? You seem like a great guy, you should just remember to use caution if you do decide to be with her. Some people are really good at hiding their other side, especially when it comes to drinking and such.

Dont worry dude, it got too a point where she become out of the control (GF). I left her like last year May. Carefree now no more crazy stress from her and her mother. And yeah im ganna take a step back, a biggggg one before i date again. Cheers

Dont worry dude, it got too a point where she become out of the control (GF). I left her like last year May. Carefree now no more crazy stress from her and her mother. And yeah im ganna take a step back, a biggggg one before i date again. Cheers

Dont worry dude, it got too a point where she become out of the control (GF). I left her like last year May. Carefree now no more crazy stress from her and her mother. And yeah im ganna take a step back, a biggggg one before i date again. Cheers