Life DecisionI have recently had this "issue", well I'm not sure if that's what you can call it, in my life. I'm not sure if it is just me, but I almost feel like I'm wasting my life. I feel like my entire life revolves around a chase for happiness, which is a reasonable ob
Let me explain. I'm 22 years old, I live with my parents and work as a commission only consultant. My Girlfriend who I love very dearly lives about 1600km (950 miles) from me, seeing each other during seasonal breaks and for the occasional weekend every month or so. We have been together for almost 2 years now and are very happy, we would love to move closer to each other, and work our way to marriage. Now obviously that can't happen while we still live so far apart, which is the first change one of us will need to make. We have discussed the issue multiple times and come to no conclusion every time, simply because I have a job here and she has a job there. Basically we both do not have the "guts", as I spoke about earlier, to make the necessary changes.
Which brings me to my life "Issue". Now although I have a job, I don't enjoy it very much and at this stage in my life it is not proving to be very lucrative, my boss is on my *** all day everyday supposedly trying to help, yet it seems as if he is just criticizing my every move. However, he may have the right to do so if I'm not performing how I should be I suppose. Either way, I am not happy. I have been in this position for 2 years now with the ob
This is where I am now. I don't know whether I should take the risk, make the move and begin a new life closer to my Girlfriend. Which would mean I would move out of home, creating a host of expenses and responsibilities, and having to find a decent job that I enjoy and allows me to grow and work to a point where I would be able to provide for a family. Or, should I stick out what I'm currently doing, work harder at it and make it my future career, even though I am currently unhappy. This would also mean having to wait for my Girlfriend to find an opportunity to move closer to me. I know she wants to and she is working towards it.
These decisions often leave me feeling very depressed as I just don't know what to do.