What Should I Do With My "friend" ?

Hello everyone, I need some help with an issue regarding my friend.

I don't think I can really class her as a real friend as I only know her online, but regardless, I've know her for 6 years, so since I was 12 years old and we used to be very close. We used to share all our secrets and used to have alot of fun with things such as Habbo, runescape etc.

Well no we've both grown up, Im at university, and she's at college, but we still sort of talk.

For the past 1-2 years, shes fallen in love with a boy (also from Habbo) and she has almost completely blanked me out of her life. She never says hello to me, unless i talk to her first and she only ever really talks to me if he's done something wrong and needs advice about stuff (I myself have a girl friend, one in real life that i've been going out with for 3 years.)

I confronted her about this last night, here is the conversation:

Me: "Hey, I was just wondering and I dont mean to sound like I'm moaning at you, but why don't you ever say hello to me anymore?"

Her: "What do you mean?"
Me: "Well, it just seems like I always have to be the one that says hello, I mean you say that we always go through phases where we don't talk and you hate it, so why does it always have to be me that says hello to you?"
Her: "Christ, look Matt, your a good mate but your not the most important thing in my life right now, I only ever say Hello to <her bf's name here> on here"
Me: "That maybe the case, but after knowing you for 6 years and being always here for you, I thought you would want to talk to me, and besides, you saying hello to me and having a conversation doesn't have anything to do with the 'most important thing in your life', its jsut starting a conversation".

Her: "Ugh, Matt I cba with you, grow some ******* balls and stop moaning at me"

She then blocked me after that.

I don't know what to do, I know this sounds stupid because like I said I only know her online but it really hurt me to realise that I'm honestly not that important to her after everything we've been through.


So please, what should I do?

Defmute Defmute
18-21, M
2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

Dude, is she a Virgo female? hahaha sorry to sound biased, but virgos are messed up in the head.<br />
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even if she's not, just let it pass. trust me...a person like that isn't worth your time :)

Get on with your life and stop moaning about it.