Confused

I have been with my son's father for a little over. Ten years we have lived together and I asked him when are we getting married he says he is not ready and in his mind he is not getting married to anyone what should I do I love him I am just like should I leave
sulpol sulpol
31-35, F
1 Response Jan 22, 2013

well I mean if you want to be with him, then talk to him straight up. Tell him how you feel, be sure to make him know that you want him to be your husband, and that it confuses and hurts you that he wont marry you.

That's about the best advise anybody could give you I imagine. Talk about it with him till your either sure he doesn't care about you, or he proves that he does.

After that I'm sure you're smart enough to figure how to react. Lots of luck.