I Don't Know What To Think

I have been with my man for about five years. We got engaged about 2 years ago, but I was not ready to get married. I wanted to wait for us to be together for about 5 years. Well now were at the 5 year mark, and he  moved out  2 months ago. I had been a little difficult to live with, mainly because I was stressed about starting back to school after so many years.We had got into argument many times in the past, but for reason I feel like this relationship is over even though he tries to reassure me its not. I just don't understand why he would want to stay at his mothers house and not with me. I love him so much and he said he wants us to be together but I feel like he is not telling me something. I feel like he would rather come see me during the week and stay with me on the weekend. He doesn't seem to mind this arrangement at all.    I asked him do he feel like I should be worth more to him  then that. I deserve more then that. He said its not like that, but I want to know whats it like then. I'm 37 and he is 29. I asked him when will he be moving back in and he said he didn't mean for it to be this long. I keep asking and basically that's why he hasn't moved back yet.  Am I being unreasonable about the whole thing.
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1 Response Jul 16, 2010

I dont think you are at all. I can tell your ready to settle down. I feel for you i really do. Im a man and i want to tell you whats going on but there are just so many things that may be going through his head right now that without knowing his personality i wouldn't know where to begin. if i had to take a guess i would say that he is scared. i dont want to tell you to stop nagging because i can feel your sence of ergency ( not saying your nagging just asking him...you no what i mean). One thing i will say is (its easier said then done) DONT WORRY SO MUCH. if anything your energy of constant unrest will drive him away. love your self and let the universe do the rest (sounds stuip right? other then time what have u got to lose)