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I Need Someone to Love

i need someone to hold because i see all these boys and girls kissing and makes me want to cry and i think that is so sad but i can't help myself from crying i need someone here and there for me i am so sad that i almost commeded sucide because i was alone.
cynthiamay cynthiamay 16-18, F 11 Responses Dec 1, 2006

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U dont need someone to love u need someone to like and be intimate with. Y would u cry over someone kissing, if u wanted love u would smile cuz u know theres a deep passion that they might share. Ur depressed and if u had someone to love then u might really kill yourself cuz true love has good days and bad days and all it will take is one bad day to send u over the edge. Seriously. .u envy intimacy and not love.. but nothings wrong with that.

IN MY OPINION , LOVE SHOULD NOT BE CONVERTED INTO MARRIAGE. TRUE LOVE IS AN ETERNAL FEELING ... THAT SOME ONE IS THERE WHO UNDERSTAND MY FEELINGS.... I THINK IF ONE HAVE SUCH A TRUE RELATION , IT IS MORE THAN ENOUGH.... IT NOT MATTERS SUCH PERSON IS WITH ME OR NOT. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE NOT MATTERS... HOW DEEP WE REALIZE HIS/HER IN OUR INNER SOUL IS MOST IMPORTANT.
LOVE IS A SUPPER ENERGY, IT CAN NOT BE BOUND IN ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP. TO MAKE IT CLEAR , I WANTS TO TELL ABOUT HUMAN BEING AND RELATIONS. PLZ GO THROUGH IT VERY SERIOUSLY :
AT THE TIME OF BIRTH , A PERSON GETS A NUMBER OF RELATIONS ..... MOTHER, FATHER, BROTHER , SISTER, UNCLE, AUNTY, GRANDMOTHER, GRANDFATHER AND SUCH MANY MORE RELATIONS.
THESE RELATIONS ARE RELATIONS BY BIRTH.
THEN, FURTHER GOD REWARDS US WITH TWO MORE RELATIONS :

A.> WIFE / HUSBAND

B. > A TRUE FRIEND

RELATIONSHIP OF WIFE AND HUSBAND IS JUST LIKE COVALENT BONDING , WHERE EACH ARE CONNECTED WITH EACH OTHER BECAUSE OF THEIR EMOTIONAL AND OTHER NEEDS. THOUGH THIS RELATION IS EVERLASTING.
BUT IN MY OPINION , IT IS NOT COMPARABLE TO A TRUE FRIENDSHIP. A WIFE IS AGAIN INVOLVED IN OTHER RELATIONS... LIKE .... MOTHER , SISTER, ETC., ETC., IN THE SAME MANNER A HUSBAND IS ALSO FURTHER INVOLVED IN RELATIONS .. LIKE FATHER , BROTHER AND SO ON.
IN THIS WAY THE ENERGY OF LOVE IN BETWEEN THEM GETS DIVERTED INTO DIFFERENT RELATIONS.

A TRUE FRIEND IS ONE IN WHICH WE HEARTLY REALIZE THE FEELINGS OF ALL SUCH RELATIONS.
A TRUE FRIEND IS THE ONLY CARE TAKER , TRUE LOVER . WISHES OF SUCH A TRUE FRIEND WORKS LIKE A MIRACLE .
NO WORDS CAN DEFINE A TRUE FRIENDSHIP. NO RELATION CAN BOUND IT. HOW ITS POSSIBLE TO MERGE SUCH A SUPPER HOLY ENERGY IN SUCH SMALL HUMAN RELATION.
WE CAN SIMPLY SAY IT THE RELATION OF TWO SOULS.
TRUE FRIENDSHIP ---- TRUE LOVE CAN NOT BE BOUNDED , EVEN BY TIME. UNIVERSE , OR SAY GOD , ALSO BOWS THEIR HEADS IN RESPECT OF SUCH AN ETERNAL RELATION.

Going by your philosophy ..doesnt a true friend divert love in different directions too bcuz they have other friends and family likewise..so thus this does not have any foundation so it doesnt make sense :(

I fell the same way if you want I ca try to help you

I once felt that way too. I never knew this but my biggest fear in life is to be left alone. I thought to myself that I will never find true love. Many guys would want to talk to me, but I always said no because I wanted to be with the right guy. Therefore, I would stay alone. But, I noticed that the loneliness was killing me inside. I too saw couples kissing and hugging each other. I longed for that same feeling. I wanted to feel that beautiful feeling inside of me too. But..I could not. However, I waited and their was this one guy who I knew and wanted to talk to me. He was the first guy that I met that my parents did not like. I thought that I could not like him because of who he was. However, when I would talk to some other guys I felt like I was cheating on him just because he liked me. Then, that was when I realized that I had liked him after all. Now, we are going out and it all seems great. Just be patient. Your time will come. I waited too and now I have a wonderful person in my life. Despite what people say that he is not a good person, I know that he will make me happy. A tip: don't get with someone just because they asked you out. It does not matter how long you wait. I mean...I will rather wait longer than to be with a person who would not appreciate me. Please take that in consideration. Good Luck! :)

dont worry just be patient trust me being very patient can be very rewarding I also need someone to love and feel alone but I am very patient and I know my time will come so will yours.

You have a lot of time. Don't be afraid. Someday when we really know what love is, it will come for us.<br />
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p.s. by love I don't mean schoolyard love I mean the deeper kind

No don't do that, its not the end of the world. I lost the love of my life and tried to commit suicide to, but I realized that it would only hurt my family. You have to just wait, love will come to you and it usually happens when you least expect it.

me to have the same feeling

I feel exactly the same way !!!!!<br />
And if I only could I would hold you in my arms all day and you would hold me in yours....<br />
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(I even created a group called I hate people in love).

its not end of the world. Youre time will come

its not end of the world. Youre time will come