I Need Advice.

I'm very well known at my school because everyone knows my dad and well let's just say I'm not the ugliest person in the world. I still haven't had my first though and everyone knows that. All of my guy friends have respect for me because unlike all of the other girls in my school I don't just date anyone and have sex with anyone. I've been waiting for a good boyfriend that makes me feel special so it will be special but that could be years from now, who knows. But there is this one guy in the grade above me that I've known for a very long time and we've talked about doing it. We don't have feelings for each other so I know I wouldn't get attached and I know he wouldn't tell anyone except for maybe his best friend who is in college who wouldn't say a word, I know him. My closest friend told me that I need to wait because I'll most likely regret it, I'll lose my good reputation and that I can find the right guy but I'm too stubborn to give anyone a chance. But all of my cheer sisters tell me it's just sex it doesn't really matter. So I really don't know if I should have sex with him or not. I'm kind of in the middle right now. Please help.
Love2cheer Love2cheer
2 Responses Sep 11, 2012

You are awesome for not having your first yet. You should wait till you are ready. Don't give into all of the peer pressure. Do it when you know you are ready:D

I think you are AWESOME for waiting!!!!! You should do what YOU truly feel is right for YOU...and if waiting for that special guy is what you feel in your heart is the best...then by God do it!!! :) There's so many more important things in this world to worry about, honestly...and one is u know...STD's...sadly :(....and just think..by you staying 'celibate' you are protecting yourself as well :). Hang in there, seriously...things will come to light soon enough...just don't stress over it...k :)...I've been there...I waited til' I was 18...I was one of the few 'good girls' in my HS...and that was over 25 years ago (OR SO LoL!!!)...sigh... you seem like a smart girl... :)