I'm Not Looking For A Lot Of Sympathy But..

I just never feel happy anymore. The lovely woman I've been with for almost 2 years keeps getting hurt by me and I don't know what to do. My family is zero help with my stress and my friends don't make me as happy as they used to. I've worked my *** off for the last year or so to try to go to college and get certified in the it field and get a job so I can save up for me and my girlfriend's future apartment but everyone seems to be weighing me down and I've been holding in stress for a few years and I just don't know what to do.. I've felt like this before throughout the last few years but never this bad.. I'd just like to talk to someone, anyone. That's all..
TyBeal TyBeal
1 Response Sep 16, 2012

Wow sounds like you gotta lot on your plate . Please feel free to message me ANYTIME you want or need to talk or vent . I am a really good listener .

Repressing all that stress is the absolute worst thing you could do . PLEASE make it priority to immediately find an outlet for it . You can buy a punching bag and work out with it for a set time every day with music in the background like rap or something . Or possibly get a gym membership where you can physically channel some of that stress . Also create a quiet little area in the corner of a room or something near a window where you can have plants nearby and listen to relaxing meditation music on earphones or something, maybe have a fan blowing in the background .

These are some examples anyway . I hope you can remedy things before the relationship falls apart . If you go on suppressing it all and not giving an outlet you will only hurt yourself and those you love and things can quickly fall apart . Be careful about what you say to the girlfriend . If it is going to be negative or complaining or cause for argument , you are better off not saying anything and turn that verbal negativity into intense physical workout especially which can channel aggression . Good luck . :)