Tired

My wife and I have been cheating on each other for all of our marriage. I cheat because she does not give me sex. I thought 2013 was going to be different but as soon as i left to go overseas to work she started going to see this guy. She did not know that I place a tracker on her so that I could monitor where she goes. I caught her and of course she lied and I told her were she was and how long she was there. I am sooo tired of this mess, I have no idea why she cheats because she does not want to talk about it. I'm sitting over in Afghanistan sad , but I need to stay because I need the money. I gave her to chance to come clean and we could work it out, but she will not so I guess this is the end.. So sad...
An Ep User An EP User
1 Response Jan 22, 2013

1st I am truly sorry for this situation. This is unacceptable behavior, and as long as both of you keep accepting it, it will continue. You need to take the time and re-valuate the situation. Is this worth it? what are you getting out of it? what are you putting in it? Find the answer and make your decision. But remember, you may change, but you will not be able to control your partner's change. She may be willing to change with you or not. Its up to you to decide what your going to do with the answer. Good luck! wish you all the best!