My names Andy and I'm 46
I'm sorry for wasting your time but I feel so low at the moment.
Two days ago my girlfriend of only 7 months told me she found some one else.
It's so stupid I want to cry my eyes out but feel so ashamed to do so.
Female friends have told me I'm a great guy and i can call them anytime but I don't want to be a burden on them or have them thinking Oh my god it's him on the phone again.
Two years ago I split with my girl of 16 years.( Yvonne )
I was devastated but everyone said don't worry the next one will be the one.
Mary came along I had know her for years and we always got on well.
I couldn't believe my luck.
We hung out for a while got very close but my ex of 16 years (yvonne) said can we try again.
She was hurt upset betrayed. I was guilty but felt I had to try with my long time girlfriend.
It failed again.
Me and Mary tried again she forgave me and I thought we were going great. 3 months in and I got an invite to italy to meet the family.
She went a week before me then call a couple if days later its over.
In the short time I had split with my long time girl again and lost Mary.
I couldn't cope. Took to drink.
6 months later I joint e-harmony and met Gaynor. This time I was so so sure it was the right girl. I was so so happy. We went to Greece and planned to go to South Africa but two days ago she said she met someone else who's 62. She's 41 !!!
I'm shocked how can I loose my girl to a man almost 20 years older than me.
I'm hurting so so much and can't stand everybody saying chin up your a great guy she's wrong. I just want a lovely women to love and be loved and have a family of my own.
I don't want to be alone or left behind.
I'm scared I'm doing something stupid.
Please help me