I Need Help I Can'T Even Function

I caught my boyfriend sexting on Fb!! I have messed with a guy during a brake so I feel like he forgave me (even tho we were on a brake) so I should for give him. BUT he has been sexting her for 3 months she's from his home country so he says its nothing, she lives far away! He called her sweet names that'd he never called me we had a miscarriage it was bad I had to have surgery and I seen where he was sexting her while I was having surgery <3 I can't forgive this. am I over reacting??!
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1 Response Feb 5, 2013

I apologize for my latency for posting this right now but Ijust happen to create an account today, so here goes. Your not over reacting but you rather care for the relationship more than your boyfriend/ex boyfriend does. And that's okay, really. However, your best bet is that if you ever catch your boyfriend cheating on you in any sort of way, regardless if it is sexting or what, you mind as well break up with your boyfriend. I know, as depressing it may sound, it happens to be the right thing to do. Of course, you can also try changing the guy by arguing and forgiving him, however, usually the good nice girls ends being stomped on. Sometimes break ups are meant to be learning experiences that can also be carried from one person's knowledge to another. Believe me, I felt lonely a lot of times but after a while it's something to get used to and also enjoy at the same time. Don't worry, I'm sure there is other plenty of fish in sea just the perfect one for you