I need some help my mind goin all over the place I get worryed when my boyfriend gets ramdom bone on he says it just the blood ... But when we 1st got 2geva I told him thing I don't like which wrre having girls on his phone and that and one day he got rid of them and he text me saying everything gone apart from pic of me n my ex gf he could not get rid of them becouse of I could Whitch was true but I looked at the picture and they was just ones of him n here and they was one it her bum I no there was 2geva for ages but I get worried he looked at them he told me he never he just knew they was there can anyone help me please
kayloulou kayloulou
22-25, F
3 Responses Aug 27, 2014

If the pictures are still on his phone I would leave. I read some comments, one in particular saying he keep the picture to have "control".LMBOOOF!!!!. why couldn't he have just moved on???????? Skip her, change his number and enjoy the woman he's now with.... It's not control he wants. He is/was fantasizing. If you walked in on him with a BON-ER and his phone close to him. He WAS looking at it ........I agree especially in the morning bon-ers magically appear but... in your case I don't know .................................................Another comment: (in a whiney voice) " he didn't tell you about coz u'd get upset, you can't blame him for taking the pic coz you two weren't together"-----******; TOO many things wrong with that. ..........................................................................1. He didn't tell you cause he knew it was wrong.2. It doesn't matter if he took the picture when they weren't together. POINT IS HE HAS IT NOW when they were or are dating. .................................................................................Imagine if your girlfriend had a picture of her ex's DI*K on her phone and she just said "oh i'm keeping it just in case he tries to blackmail me"(roll eyes) but YET you see her in the corner over there with her panties getting wet??? how do you feel about that ?????????????? ............................................And her LAME excuses is "oh this...ha...that's just my body's natural way of cleaning it's self....." ...............................Not sure if this is even worth writing cause 9 out of 10 a women always takes a man back even if she were to see him caught red handed in the bed naked........................................................"oh baby, I cant sleep naked and she was tired too" or "oh baby, it was her fault" or "hunny, it's not what it looks like..."...lol Right...or "well baby i have needs, I'm a man (AKA: also know as" little b***h a** boy)">>> ...........................................................But If a women cheats 0.5 out of 10 a man will take her back.... RARE>>. ......................................................................... Girl THINK HARD and don't waste precious time on this man... the more we say its okay, The more it's bound to happen. If your going to stick with him through thick and thin then WHY should he give a crap about changing?There are good men out there that can make you happy and take care of family properly. Maybe if you leave and can work on himself.. CAUSE HE IS A HOT MESS......

No no u got it roung when we 1st got 2geva I asked him delte things I Wernt happy about like havin girls in his phone so he did all that he told me it all gone expected pic of him n his ex Whitch he could not delte becouse of I cowled on your phone Whitch I knew was ture but the pic on there was I'm n his ex when they was 2geva and one of her bum .... But he told me about them I knew they was there

I don't understand your writing honestly. His ex A** is on his phone correct? and your not happy that it's there right?

And he could not delete because of what????
get a new phone? Get it fix at the phone store?
I don't know what cowled means i''m sorry

(cowled) on who's phone. His phone right?

Yes he had pictures from is old phone to his new phone but cud not delte them u had go on compter to do it so I told him how

what kind of phone is this.... oh okay i got it.
and he erase the pictures or no?

I phone and ye he did when I told him how do it

problem solved right?
Ok well you can keep the good information just in case he messes up :) good luck.

Ye but do u think it's ok least he told me

Did he tell you when it first happen? If not, then I would be really angry..
I probably shouldn't decide your situation for you..
But the best way to solve it for YOU is to put your self in his shoes- reverse the situation. And also think what his answer would be if you were the one with the pictures.

He told me like a month Afywr of goin out

???

It happened a month ago, you two are together still, And there hasn't been anymore issue with pictures on his phone and things are fine. right? if so, I guess I would skip it. Because it happened in the past and doesn't make sense to bring it out of the blue ............................................. But the problem seems as if its not solved to you and it bothers you because your bringing it up and writing about it even though a month went by. You know it was wrong BUT you don't know what to do about it.
If everything is good and solve then leave it alone and keep a eye open on the future----> in other words really pay attention to him, his actions and your feelings.

You may need some more time to get over things and you may never get over it.
If it really bothers you then you don't need to be in a relationship with this guy. You can always take a break and focus on you and what you want. Single life doesn't have to be boring---> actually very fun if you have the right people.

No this happened a year ago and he told me a month in are relsonship he still had them .... I am happy but I kist think of things I don't like ..... Whitch would u b botherd that your boyfriend was lookin up girls he know on Facebook he told me he was just bein nosey and curoies but it made me upset

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lies it is they need to know his phone number to send

What

u can message and talk to me