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Hey Everyone...

I'm emotionally confused ok? And im dealing with a huge struggle rn and its really hurting me. my ex girlfriend, name is Andrea, she hurt me a lot in the past and i have no idea why, but i go back to her no madder what, she apologized to me, and i have love feelings for her again. and shes in New Jersey, and im in Tennessee, and i just feel like she'll find someone else first before she allows a one more go with her and me, though i know this time, it will be for real. but i just feel like she's seeing someone and is already in love with a guy, though she says she's not ready to date again because of what she's done. All i can do is pray she returns to me first before she finds anyone else, and I'm having the urge to cry as i write this because i dont know what im doing and i dont know what to do. could someone PLEASE give me advise on what i should do?
int3restedIntHingz int3restedIntHingz 18-21, M 10 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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i know. i havent talked to her for 2 days. and its helping so far lol

Everyone here has your best interests at heart. Please join us and think about you for a bit. I got help for my obsession who is my alcoholic husband. I found The New Codependency by Melodie Beattie at my local library. I downloaded it to my MP3 pla<x>yer. It helped me a lot. <br />
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The truth is if she gets away from you, you'll find another one a lot like her and then another until you make some changes and take care of yourself.

Everyone here has your best interests at heart. Please join us and think about you for a bit. I got help for my obsession who is my alcoholic husband. I found The New Codependency by Melodie Beattie at my local library. I downloaded it to my MP3 pla<x>yer. It helped me a lot. <br />
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The truth is if she gets away from you, you'll find another one a lot like her and then another until you make some changes and take care of yourself.

thanks everyone for your comments :/ but its harder than what any of u could imagine for me....

I really feel for you. I am going through something similar. I know you don't know me but I just lost the love of my life. We just split up recently and well it's a long story but anyway no matter what he does to me I always go back to him. I love him more than life itself and I know that I really get annoyed when ppl say just forget about him. Forgetting seems impossible right now to me and you said that you can't and that time is not working. I am really sorry to anyone who has to feel this pain and I just wanted to say that if you wanted to talk to me I will be there to talk. I don't have any friends to talk to that's why I joined this site..so just offering a talk..thats all. If not then I hope that you find happiness soon..

I agree with Angela...when someone tells you not to do something....it seems that it almost makes you continue to do it more...especially when love comes into play. Considering the fact that she has hurt you more than once, the odds are she WILL do it again. With the distance between you two, it only increases the odds. Why set yourself up for more heartbreak? If she cared, she would not have hurt you to begin with. Think of it this way, the longer you spend on a dead relationship, the longer it will be before you find the person you should be with.

whoever persuade you dont go back to her, you will not listen because you still love her. one day if she hurt you again, you would understand what others say to you. I am the one who had the same feeling as you. finally, I was hurt again and I realize that I should put myself in first place.

yeah but time is killing me not curing -.-

i know, ive tried, but its too hard >..>

i know, but heres the thing, i feel like im attached to her because i gave her a ring.... and i didnt talk to her for a loooong while til a couple weeks ago, now im just emotionally inlove with her now and i hate myself for it... i just wish god could give me a fucken sign! >.<