Boys Feel Unwanted Too

I'm a 26 year old guy, turning 27 in a week and I've been single for 4 years. I've only been in two serious relationships in my whole life and got dumped both times. I tried dating websites, I tried meeting people at social gathering, friends have set me up on blind dates. It never seems to fail, the girls I get setup with just don't like me. I don't know if I'm ugly, or what's wrong with me, but I feel so much like for some reason I'm just destined to be alone my whole life and that nobody cares about me in that way. The last of my high school friends is getting married this summer. I just don't understand what's wrong with me that girls don't seem interested in me. I'm a nice guy, caring, thoughtful, relatively smart and a hard worker, but nobody out there seems to care. The only thing I've wanted since I was a kid was to have a family, a wife and a few kids, and to be able to provide for them. I have never cared about money, a prestigious career or anything out of the ordinary, all I wanted was to have a family. I don't know why such a simple, reasonable desire couldn't be fulfilled.

People just brush me aside and say trite things like "the right person will come along" or something similar. I used to believe that, but I just don't see it happening in my life. 

The worst feeling is not the loneliness, but just feeling utterly rejected by the opposite sex, completely unattractive, unwanted. A nobody. I think this is who I'm destined to be.oreand
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May 24, 2012