A Loveless Marriage
I am in a marriage where there is no longer any love. My husband's heart is made of stone. I try to talk things over with him and he responds as though I am forcing him to do something against his will. Whenever I suggest we separate he gets angry and says that I am threatening him. he treats me really badly.He goes out with others for the entire weekend, coming home in the wee hours of the morning to get a few hours sleep, only to get up and go again the next day. If I call a name of one of his friends he gets really over the top angry and tells me not to speak about him. There are days when he would swear that he wants to save this marriage and he wants to do what it takes but he makes absolutely no effort. Every time I try to approach the topic of our marriage it ends in an argument. He never shows me any warmth, or caring or love. I don't know what to do anymore. he goes about his daily activities like he has no care in the world and I am panicking that this marriage is about to end. I suggested that we see a marriage councilor but he outright refuses. I am really going crazy about this because there is absolutely no love, no intimacy. nothing between us. He completely ignores me for days on end. He often says to me and to everyone else that I treat him really good and he couldn't ask for a better wife. Yet he treats me like this. I don't know what to do.