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A Loveless Marriage

By: yunikorn23
Written on May 24th, 2012
Age: 41-45
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  • mjpe20

    Im not married but I have been with the same guy for 7 years and he treats me the same way. I get called named he sometimes even hits me wen we fight. To make matters worse we have a 6 month old baby girl and he threatens me with her every time we fight. I try talking to him and he just blows up or takes some thin I say the wrong way and we fight even more. I no how u feel I feel the same way pretty much every day. If u need some one to talk to Im here!!!!

    May 25, 2012
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  • fmfcorpsmangirlfriend

    Please go to a book store/family christian book store and buy Five Love Languages By: Gary Chapman and Love and Respect By: Emerson Eggrich

    May 24, 2012
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  • kindestmaster

    You have given the caption rightly, you have analysed rightly, but you want to save the marriage. It is one sided marriage, the love flows from to him, he is a good receiver and receives it and you are a good care taker, which he appreciates well and gives due credit. So, it is a happy and healthy marriage as far as your hubby is concerned. If you are going to be happy with that, this marriage will be saved. He is not ready to leave you, it is not because he loves you, but because you take care of him well and no one will do like you. And the over night stay and abstinence from you for sex shows that his needs are satisfied elsewhere. So, all his needs on all the angles are taken care well. And there is nothing for you in this marriage and we cannot make him to understand. So....? It is upto you to deciding. Saving this marriage is good for him, and is it good for you?

    May 24, 2012
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  • Cattycatb

    I had some of the same issues. All I can say is be smart. Don't wait for him to talk, change, try, or care. If he is sick or addicted. Try to help. If not stand up for you! Lay out situation and do something. Fix or walk(run). Good luck. We all deserve happiness.

    May 24, 2012
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