I Need Someone To Get Me.i am one of the people who don't make friends very easily. I used to be good at having one friend who was always there when I needed it, a person who understands my core. Who knows and gets where I'm coming from. As I got older though, most of my friendships, I feel, is only friendships on the surface. I never talk to anyone about what is going on inside, because most of the people I know either wouldn't understand, or would make it all be an occasion to tell me a story about themselves.
I simply want someone to get me. I am not even talking about a romantic connection, I just need someone to get me, to sympathise with me, tell me they understand. Someone who will listen. Not someone who is talking about how great my hair looks and where we're going to get drinks next. Someone to be honest and tell me when I am out of line, or tell me that I am making a big mistake. Someone who will be there to listen and come over to talk when my world is crashing. Obviously, I will do the same to them when they need it. I will be there to support and listen.
I just really miss bonding, really bonding with someone. As I said, not necessarily romantically, just that feeling of really having the kind of connection where you don't even have to say anything to enjoy each other's company. I haven't had that for years, and I miss it.