Don't Understand

Im in love with someone im not allowed to be with. Im not allowed to see or talk to him and if i do Im threatened that he'll be sent to jail. I don't know what to do. I can't be with him till im 18 and i can't wait that long. I can't break up with him for those 2 years but i don't know how to be in a relationship where i can't see or be with them. I love him so much and we promised we'd make it through this and be strong. We tried just being sneaky and seeing each other but we've been caught to many times that one more time and the cops are called. I won't be the one that ruins his life and sends him to jail. What do i do?

TeighBay TeighBay
2 Responses Jun 5, 2008

I totally understand what you are going through. Same thing happened when I was a teenager. I learned to take it one day at a time. I joined groups in school just to meet different people and to keep my mind busy. You will hear people say that "absent makes the heart grow fonder" or "If you love something let it go and if it comes back its yours if not it never was" and that would just pissy me off more. The biggest thing that you need to remember that you do not want a relationship that has problems to start with because they usually get worse. If you and him are true soul mates and truly love each other you can make it through this and when you get back together it will be the best and for some reason you don't you will find your true soul mate when you least expect it.

If this is true love two years is nothing. Don't jeopardise what may be a wonderful thing. If it doesn't survive the time, it wasn't meant to be.