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My parents beat me and I don't know what to do. Please just some advice :(
Kat98 Kat98 13-15, F 16 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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You can be helped out of your bad situation. But you will need to ask for the help. Go and see your doctor - s/he has to treat everything you say confidentially. Ask him/her to refer you to a trained counsellor who can help you deal with things. Please don't wait for things to get worse. Act now. Good luck.

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Message me if you wish to talk, I also was abused before.

message me if you need someone to talk to

Easy call...child services. Call them. :)

WHAT CITY AND STATE ARE YOU FROM KATE, ONLY TELL ME IF YOUR USING A ALIAS NAME AND A FAKE PICTURE<br />
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OK, JUST TO CLEAR UP A FEW THINGS EVERYONE, WHEN I ASK KATE WHAT DO SHE MEAN WHEN SHE SAY BEAT, I JUST WANTED TO HAVE A VERY CLEAR UNDERSTANDING OF HER SITUATION AND NOT A MISUNDERSTANDING BEFORE I GAVE HER ADVICE. I BEEN ON BOTH SIDES OF THE DOOR WITH KIDS AND SOME LIED BECAUSE THEY WERE MAD AND SOME WERE TELLING THE TRUTH. YES SHE NEEDS TO CALL CHILD PROTECTED SERVICES

your EP family is here for you

call cps, and only tell them they are abusing you, if you have a camera phone take pictures as evidence, and/or turn on your phones voice recorder if you know something is about to happen, and keep the phone in your pocket while its happening so you have audio evidence. Good luck

Thank you for your advice everybody, my friend did tell the guidance counselor, and I was sent to the mental institution for cutting myself and they accused me of lying about my parents. Looks like the world is even more unjust than I thought.

Well you do what you must to stay in the mental institution tell them you are suicidal and that you might try if you arent kept there. If you go home you will do whatever you can to kill yourself. If you tell them this they have to keep your things. Tell them you fear for your life there and if you go back you will for sure so something.

I'm not suicidal, I just cut for the high you get from it.

You dont have to be suicidal to simply say that you are. If you are afraid to go back home afraid of what they might do you only tell them you are suicidal. They will put you in a room and no one can visit you and you will be safe. a friend of mine had to do that when she was young. No one believed her so she told the people at the hospital she was suicidal and they admitted her to protect her from herself and her family.

that's child-abuse.u should call or speak to somebody about this.dont be afraid.many people in here will support you,including me.

Hi kate, when you say beat, do you mean spank for something you did bad or abuse?

I mean beatings as in getting kicked in the face and thrown into wall and stuff :/

Ok kate, are you scared to tell someone? you have several option, 1 you can call child protective services,2 you can ell you school counselor but becareful because they will contact her and she will beat you worst because the counselors wont go home with you ,so remember that. 3 you can go to an adult relative for hhelp if you believe they can protect you from your parents...if u dont mind me asking, who is this abusing you? if its your parents, are you sure u want to contact the department of children and and protected services? they may move you out of that home into a home with relatives or foster family if you dont have clost relatives that u can stay with..now tell me this, are you ready for this transition????????? what state are you iin and ill give you the number to child protected services and you can decide what u want to do.

I was battered black & blue as a child I ended up in care ring child line find out how u can escape cos u dnt want to end up damaged goods later in life big hugs

NO ONE SHOULD BE BEATEN...DISCIPLINE, YES.... BEATING NO!! The Time will come when you will be able to Leave the Abuse. In the meantime, try to Confide Privately to someone who maybe understanding, find resources to get your plight Noticed....Prayer is a changer as well.. STAY STRONG! You are Not Alone!

Go to the school nurse and ask her to write down every scar or bruise on you each time it happens. When she has enogh information she should report it. It is required by law that a school official report any signs of abuse on a child.

hey im 15 and my dad hits me too soo i know how it feels to be in that situation i know it can be hard most of the time but you have to stay strong put your mind in other things, im always here if you want to talk just send me a message