I Can't Tell If The Person I'm With Is Right For Me

I'm in a serious relationship with a man I care about very very much, but I just can't tell if it's right.
Backstory: we met working at a camp, became great friends, and started dating almost a year later. We have a ton in common. But we're 9 years apart. He's 28 and I'm 19. I know he's great for me now, but I want to be with someone a little more mature when I get to be 28. That probably doesn't make any sense. He just does a lot of things that make me worry about the future. Like he isnt very wise financially. And hes so stubborn. But then again so am I. I don't know where I'm going with this. I just need someone to talk to.
sereni sereni
18-21, F
2 Responses Sep 7, 2012

Go with your gut feeling, if its not feeling right to you then there is something clearly wrong and your body is telling you subcontceously. You may love him but he might not be the one for you. Look at what you want in a partner and ask yourself does this man satisfy what your looking for if not its better to end it then get yourelf in a situation you'll regret later one.

im in a very similar situation. im 17 and my boyfriend is 21. im very driven and passionate about what i want to do when i finish school and he just isnt. he gets a job for a few months and if he doesnt like it he just quits without another job lined up. he throws his money away every weekend at the tavern and just doesnt think... at all! i love him to bits and all i want to do is travel with him and eventually move in with him but he wants the same but he doesnt realise all that costs money. he needs to grow up