Men's Performance Issues

Ive been married and in a platonic marriage for 8 years. Today after discussing divorce,my husband tells me he has low self esteem and body issues and has had much anxiety over performance. I knew about his performance issues and tried to tell him to just let go and enjoy himself but he can't. We used to have sex about 4 times a year at my insistence/initiative but now we haven't had sex in a year. Is any of this common in men?
Shkane Shkane
41-45, F
1 Response Sep 15, 2012

Depending on his health and age yes it is

What a mess. We actually split up and suddenly he wants it all the time. We got back together for kids sake but I'm not attracted to him and have so much resentment for how our first 8 years of marriage went.