Still In Love.

I'm 26 years old. I have been divorced for 7 months and separated for over a year now. My ex-husband and I split up after I found out about him cheating on me. Instead of talking to me and fixing things he just left. I know I shouldn't be in a relation ship where he constantly cheated but I would have rather tried to fix my marriage. I have not moved on at all and he is already married again. To a woman with 2 kids. It's so hurtful to know he married someone with kids after he told me he never wanted children with me. Even after everything I begged him to stay and he didn't. So now a year later he has emailed me about how much he loves me and that he's sorry about everything he did. I have been so depressed that I see a therapist weekly and take medications. I wish I could just take him back and be happy but I know that's not the answer. I need to get over him and move on.
Oceona Oceona
26-30, F
1 Response Dec 8, 2012

I know that you love him. Think about this. Why do you think all of a sudden he is expressing his undying love for you? Not that you don't deserve love. It's just that he left you with no explanation to be with someone else. I think that this is a case of him thinking that the grass would be greener on the other side and it wasn't. The problem wasn't with you to begin with. He seems like a user. He's married now and he's doing the same thing that he did to you, to his new wife. Don't be a fool. You deserve so much better.