I ruined a relationship with a girl who could of been my wife... Im still young but what do u do when u have no one else and no where to go.. ? I feel if it's not her then its nobody
lokng4hope lokng4hope
2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

I know what you mean bud. I broke up with a girl that could of been my wife as well - but I wasn't ready. I still feel guilty and often feel a sense of regret. I just hope time heals it. I have met other girls, but it just doesn't feel the same. I just had a dream about her today actually. But I tried to make it work and in the end I know it wasn't working for me...I have to remind myself of why it doesn't work and not just what I miss about her.

Hey! Chin up butter cup. There's plenty of fish in the sea. I know it's easier said than done, but you gotta move on. I know what you had before might have been amazing, but don't shut yourself up from other possibilities and opportunities by fretting over the last one.
Please don't be hard on yourself. You owe it to yourself to love yourself. If you cannot love yourself, how can you love someone else?
:) Like I said, take life one step at a time. If she wants to still be in your life, she'll find a way. If she doesn't than there is nothing you can do about it but to respect her decision and do something for yourself.