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Confused Please Help.

By: polkadot93
Written on July 15th, 2007
i am a 17 year old girl who is confused, i like guys but for some reason i keep questioning that i am a lesbian. i really don't even know why.i mean, no offense to lesbians, but i don't want to be one and i dont like girls but i think for that reason (that i dont want to) that my mind keeps tricking me. i did have two boyfirneds but i seemed to like hte attention that i was getting from my other school friends becuas ei had that boyfirned. i have been in love for two years but not anymore. the thing that really confuses me is that i have liked guys but my firends will be walking down the street drooling over some guy and ill be like yea hes hot i guess. like i dont flip over some guys and i feel like that is wrong. also sometimes ill think about my friends who are girls and immediatly stop what i am thinking in my mind becasue i am digusted but hwy was i thinking it in the first place? and when i get in a relationshoip with a guy i get awkward but i keep thinking well i wouldnt be this awkward with a girl. is that just cuase my good friends are girls and becuase we are friends i know how to act? or am i a lesbian? i really need help im getting so upset over this. what do i do?
By: polkadot93
Age: 16-18 , Female
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9 responses
  • indigofem1
    indigofem1

    Hey....being a lesbian isn't a bad thing...difficult, maybe...I've been a lesbian my entire life, and if I had a chance to be born again, I'd be a lesbian, again...tried men, didn't even like 'em...give it a try...

    Feb 4
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  • TrafalgarLaw
    TrafalgarLaw

    You're really confused..

    If I were you, I'd try going out with a girl and see if that relationship was less awkward, try kissing her and see if it's better than kissing a guy, etc. But don't go out with a girl just to experiment, go out with someone you like.

    Sep 16, 2012
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  • sanasafinaz
    sanasafinaz

    Only confusion has trapped your mind to think anything straight.

    May 22, 2012
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  • xspamadvice
    xspamadvice

    I think you're confused above all. Honestly, don't worry what tohers think of you and do what you think is right even if that does result in becoming lesbian. Some of the most popular girls at my school are bisexual! If you're confused, and willing, you can experiment and see if it feels right to go out with a girl. It's ok to like both too! If you need help I'm always here! (:

    Feb 26, 2012
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  • JesusExperience
    JesusExperience

    You know I agree with all of the above. Relax enjoy today for the blessings being poured out on you by God. He created the universe and He created you just the way He wanted you, and He loves you just that way. Part of growing up is learning about your feelings and desires, it is even ok to talk about them in the right setting, so again you are normal. Love is more about a relationship that will last a life time, what your girlfriends are doing when the see a guy is exactly what guys do, again you are normal. Reach out to God for direction after all He knows exactly what is best for you. Blessings

    Mar 25, 2011
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  • Jenesh
    Jenesh

    you seemed to be confused indeed. dont fall into peer pressure, as to what your friends are doing. pray to God for help. ask Jesus Christ for help. God bless you...

    Mar 24, 2011
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  • thethey
    thethey

    Its nothing serious, im 24, when i was 15-18 i thought the same things too, im straight and i know it now, everybody has those thoughts at that age i promise-nobody says anything just because no one wants to be called gay-Ann Frank even wrote about it in her diary, its 100% normal

    Dec 8, 2009
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  • juggalettebingy
    juggalettebingy

    hmm.. well.. im kinda dealing with the same thing.. duont relaly knwo waht to do either.. its all pretty knew to me

    ....

    Jul 20, 2007
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  • BrutMystik
    BrutMystik

    I think you are just emotional and confused at this point...if I were you, I would just focus on what you are going to do after HS. I know you might think this is stupid advice but chances are, you just need to relax and focus on more important things-your sexuality will work itself out. Take care and be wise.

    Jul 18, 2007
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