Tonight my engagement ended. My fiancé got arrested for DUI. Turns out he was in a place he never told me he was going, with a girl I have posted about previously. He has gone way over the line this time. I feel betrayed, angry, scared and sad. I'm scared of being a single mother. I'm scared of no man wanting me because I have two kids from two different men. I'm scared of entering the dating world. I'm devastated that i thought the last five years produced the single most solid relationship I've ever had. I never ever expected this to happen. I have no idea how I'm going to support two kids on my income. I don't know how I'm going to get them to and from daycare and work. I'm just so scared.
secret911 secret911
31-35, F
5 Responses Aug 30, 2014

I'm so sorry you about your situation and right now you will be concerned for your future and your children's but you will be supported by friends, neighbours, and everyone here on EP! Take care - and if you want to chat I am here.

don't settle for less!! think about it this way : do you want your children to be influenced by a guy who comits crimes? and don't be scared you are stronger than you think :))

I can completely understand where you are coming from. I know it seems impossible right now and your heart is breaking because you have to let him go and don't want to. But, look to your kids for strength. No one these days really cares how many kids fathers you have. The real question is whether they are good enough to be around your kids. Just breath and things will start to clear up as you go. Who knows you guys may make it work if you want to, but if you don't that's ok too.. just take things slowely. I have 2 boys 12 and 1 and I am going to break up with their father when he gets home because I am tired of this B. I can be lonely and heartbroken alone. I'm here if you ever want to vent, yell curse whatever. I will listen.

I'm sorry hun to hear what is going on for you. You should like a nice lady who desires only the best. I hope you find the guy that will treat you like a queen

Time to move on . Tell him you met some one else like me