i just need to talk to some one. after four and a half years my girlfriend called it quits, said i don't give her what she needs she tell me that she love me and it will be hard for her to live without me . i give her everything i have. its been 3week she is see some one already wow was she cheating on me, i cant live without her

lostmyheartmel lostmyheartmel
3 Responses Mar 9, 2009

I don't know what happened in your relationship so I can't comment on that. But it sounds like she wasn't happy with something the relationship was missing. Did you get a fair chance to talk with her and listen to what she was looking for? In my case my husband doesn't listen to me, he hears me but doesn't really listen. He gets defensive and shuts down which gets us no where good. The one thing a women wants to feel is wanted and needed, and the small things matter the most. We are not all that hard to figure out really we as women don't always make it easy but that's only because we want to feel like we are worth fighting for. If it's not to late I'd try again and if it is then chalk it up as an experience. move on but don't do the rebound thing that always ends up bad. Good luck to you I wish I had a chance to start over.

I have been there many times. I went through a phase of trying to keep her and after a while I grew out of it. I had to tell myself life goes on and I have to live my life. It sucks, don't get me wrong, but when you are comfortable with yourself it is amazing that woman will find you.

Life sucks doesn't it, but women are hard to find out and get to know. You just lost how to study what made her be the only woman you wanted. It happens, find more about what makes you happy and not just get laid. And when your not thinking about it, your bound to have that chemistry that any woman wants. If you don't have something to offer such as true love, what in the world are they gonna get out of you that they can't get out on the streets? you need to be the worth more. And keep on finding small things that makes a woman so great. Its not all about you. Tough love.