Need Someone That I Can Talk To

I have no one.  I have no friend that I can talk to.  I am a big sister in the family.  I have to work to treat the whole family and family's dept from my dad.  I have to be strong for them.  I can't be weak infront of them.  But sometime I feel so empty inside.  I don't know what i'm doing now or for.  It's ok to take care of them but sometime I feel so tired and need to talk to someone who can listen to me.  I don't want to talk to friend or family cause I don't want them to see this part of me.  I want to cry but I have no tears.  I want to talk but sometime no word coming out.  It's so empty inside.  I'm afraid that if I talk my problem out, friend will all run away.  If I talk to some guy I date with, I'm afraid they will look pity and bored on me.  All I need is just a friend that I can talk with everything, give me hug when I need and shoulder for me to cry on.

JadieMermaid JadieMermaid
31-35, F
216 Responses Nov 22, 2009

Hi: I will talk with you> I would love to listen to you and help you. Im My messenger ID is ginzoks. Get back to me and I will add you to my messenger.

Hi I feel the same way you feel I"m always take care of my family ,and friends if you need someone to talk to I will be glad to talk you.

I can talk to you. :)


Hey, how are you doing now?

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feel your pain

At least you have love. When you lose everything and everyone and are alone in this world for the first time, alone equals death. Many have died, the ones from the past are words on a screen my phone don't ring and soon there won't be a phone as food gets scarce. Been robbed, left for dead and there is nobody left to call. A Veteran, disabled, worked whole life soon to join the ranks of those who lost everything but life yet. Next?

without love what else is there?

U can always talk with me I don't really have a lot of people either u can text me. 570~397~7029

Is there anyone out there that can help me please
I need help with raising my grandchildren and fixen my home I am disabled,my heart is in bad shape,but I need help with my house fixing,thank. You Jeanie. Smith

I am here for you my love
talk away

You have a lot of responses but if you find you'd like an ear who has been there, I have one and I don't judge.

i think i am all the way alone in my life so i want to talk to someone whom i dont know anyway.

Alone and over the edge of life?

can v talk?

And yes, i am there for you always :)

Try finding someone online. Someone who shares something common with you. Or you can post all you want to say on an anonymous blog.

And yes, if your friend or boyfriend is nice, they wont run away when you need someone.

It would be better if you seek counselling or join a support group.

Dont lose faith. We all go through such phases. Smile, my friend :)

I'll talk to you. I'm atheist, 6 foot tall and crippled. I am a grandmother and have much experience and can maybe fill in that void.

You can talk to me:)

your hot

Wow, i am crying about this sad story.

If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me!

I wanna catch all of you tears.
I wanna hug you yo make you feel better.
I wanna Talk to you to make you happy
I wanna tell you i am online for you.

I know how it is to be helpless. I had it too but i am on the other side of the world.

I wish i can be to you but, sadly it can't

Just tell you'r parrent('s) that you wanna talk, parrents are inportant! cry in their arms.

I wish you luck! Bye.

I am willing to listen to everyone and it is good to share the experience

try this, go somewhere secluded and alone and shout or scream or cry, just let it all out, or talk to your family tell them how you feel

Take some time for ur self something that u love...I know it's a huge burden being responsible of ur family....I'm sure ur family knows wt ur doing for them and they love u for it.. Be strong...wn ever u feel alone share with us we will listen and not judge .....lots of hugs for u ...

You are fantastic please do not forget this.... Kissess

It is okay to say I am on vacation from all of this to your family for a few days. You will be surprised that those you thought would do nothing will come through for you. Let go and share with other family members you need help. By being silent they will not know your frustration and when you do deside to let it out, which will be at your wits end, will only sound selfish to them. Sometimes writing a letter regarding your feelings will help you share your feelings in a calm and understanding why's to other family members. My prayers are with you.

now i am listening~

wow, I know it is a struggle. I been there and I am still there. I know how it is. All I do is pray and pray. Remember you're not alone there are others out there who are going thru what you are going thru. You can chat with me if you'd like too and I can chat with you .

I know how you feel not the big sister part but in some ways yes. Sometimes I myself feel like I need a friend which will understand me perfectly but I know that is impossible. Just know that you're not alone

I know were you are coming from i am like that and we all nead some 1 to talk 2 ore be there at your side when you nead it no jujmants just asholder wen you nead it

I will be that sholder 4 you if you want me 2 be i will lison 2 you and more

to not feel that way.. you must do things you like, if you don't have friends make ones, and i'm sure they will help you
we are all here.. you can talk to us anytime you want

Hi, friend and how is you?

You can always share your experiences here. Just to get things off your chest.

Exactly! I want to be and am thankful to be my familys rock, but take care of you, its takes alot to be the rock.

i got a lot to ***** about here lately. i fell you feel the need we can swap stories. i have to be strong for my friend's and family but i often dont have that in me anymore and i dont know where to find the strenght. (sigh's) what would you suggest?

Please hang in there, express your feelings here and let us help. Write in out or it will destroy you. Watch the drinking, some family issues need to be embraced. Find a social service setting that couild help, you need a person to person contact. This is not an issue for boyfriend. Do you go to a church, us the internet to find support groups near you and attend.

94999 people have read this post. Can you imagine how many people go through this every day. I do not want to know. It would scare the helll out of me. If there is that many people who feel like me right now that means it is hopeless. Hopeless to feel like you will fine hope. Fine happiness. To fit in. I need someoe to talk to. To Feel like you are worth something. I have a family that doesn't like me for there brother. I try to ignore it . it has been over 30 years of hell. I want to stop worrying if my husband is going to leave me because of them telling him something I was suppose to have done. Now they got me acting like a ***** and being the bad one. what is a person to do. Leave there husband or kill the husbands family member. After alll this time I think I would like to do that and go to jail. like it would be the best thing in the world to do. Even if I never see my husband again. I would of atleast got rid of her constant whispers and ******* lies . I don't know. I have talked to my husband about it, and he thinks it is just me. Everyone thinks it just me. ofcourse when I drink some I get more courage to say something which is probably wrong ofcourse. I think at times I want to be away. but, what does one do. I know committing suiscide is wrong and you will go to hell. But what hell I am in now, couldn't be like in helll. Atleast you know what the helll is going on. I know that knowing is better than not. I am afraid that my husband is in on it. He wants to be rid of me too. But wants it to be like he had nothing to do with it,. Sort of like mose. Get rid of them without having to pay anything for it. That is a bit scary. Mose was not an accident. I just know the way they acted or the way they told the story. I know my husband does not want to loose his retirement of health care etc... Yes, I am afraid for my life. But who cares..... They don't .... an neither does my husband apparently. maybe I should just leave or just leave permanently. what should I do?????????????

You could talk to me if you want to. I may not be able to give you an actual hug or an actual shoulder to cry on. But you could email me :)

I have ben in your shoes and do know how you feel, just stay strong on the inside and for sure you will find a friend, no problem is a burden when shared and if you think you find a unknown good person just exchange your troubles

here is my shoulder cry on it when u have need, here is my ear waiting to listen, here is my smile waiting to greet u, here is my hart willing to hug u, just know im here if u need it

when ever you need to talk im here im the oldest also and i feel empty also :/

I 2 am lonely and I know how you feel. I would be happy to talk with you anytime. I don,t have a current photo to post but I will try to get one if you want to talk ,I am here

I just wanted to say"I Love You"

Hun I will talked to you anytime you need someone to talk. I ran a bar for 13 yrs have listen to a lot people over the yrs


You need to speak up.. take a deep breath n talk... live your life u still need your space and freedom.. go out n meet people this is depressing.. it'll just frustrate u.. you are strong look what u dealing with.. be strong for yourself.. don't let your family walk on u..

Am in the similar position.. I don't have a job I just stayed home babysit my sister, cook for my mom n ex bf, clean the house etc..when I have to go out I tell them I'm going out..n could careless what they think bc am going to have fun.. good luck

You have been working so hard tryin your best to be helpful an non selfish. but my dear you have been selfish to yourself. the worst crime. do they even say thank you. there is nothing wrong in staying hold up now i need to do me. what do i want. an yea what do they think you made out of steel your only human. you need to pray to your God and only then you will learn to be fine with yourself. im only 17 but ill be glad to tlk with you much luv always keyleeee

You can talk to me

Here's my shoulder.

why are you taking care of everyone? As a mother and a wife I understand this. I have always been the "reliable" one in my family. But you have to do things that make you happy too. take a spa day. get your toes done, go to the mall and buy something nice or get a really expensive perfume or shoes. Treat yourself and you will feel better. you can inbox me anytime.

hi.may i share you problems

I was going to offer a shoulder and ear but seems as though you have plenty : )

you can talk to me

Add me if you like, I frequently have to talk with someone on a hotline, so add me and I can be a listener for a change :)

i feel sad reading your note but if you ask me personally I feel this problem of yours is something which is under your control and you are yourself doing this to you. People who cant stick around you in the times you need be it family or friends, you cant be working hard for them. You need a break and for starter you need to vent out and then figure out a way to not be fixated in it again.
Let me help you, i might be able to.

looking forward to a reply.


aveces los seres humanos necesitamos despotricar de uno mismo, con alguien que no, conoscamos para relajar el alma , cuando gustes estoy para ti

Your beautiful :)

you can talk to me..add me ..;-)

Hi Jadie, I am applying for that friendly position you are in search of. Just like you, I have life experiences to share. I'm older, but wiser and can relate to any situation.

someone please add me

I can understand what you are going thru in manny aspects of your situation you dont want to show weakness or what you feel others might interperate as weakness.And also youve become randown and it is taking a serious toll on you i think i could help you and maybe you will be able to help me as well if you would like someone to talk to email me and maybe we can hopfully help each other.

You need me as much as I need you. We all have ghosts anybody denies them then you have not done a full Inventory of yourself. I would never leave you just because you have Ghosts or a dark side. Is everything going to be good in life, I wish but not true! You want closeness, trust, bond that cant be broken, I promise not to judge, I promise to be your friend for life no matter what you dark side is. I am no better then anybody on ep or anywhere else. I'm waiting to here from you, I miss you

You can try talking here, great thing is you can talk about anything there and they will listen

reading your words seems like looking at myself on the mirror

Please add me

i am here i u need someone to talk to from silver 47

If you need a friend to talk to I'm the one for you,So don't be afraid of me I can listen to you and the porblem you is having. ok Don't took the world on your shounder because Lord have you at heart .

Im sorry this is such a difficult time for you. Sounds like you bare a lot of personal responsibilities and you feel overburdened. You sound so sad and depressed. Everyone needs someone. Even if its only to talk with. Why do you feel on some level a sense of failure for allowing your friends or family any insight on how you feel. Those are the very people that you should be able to depend on. You are only human. Try to find some time for yourself to relieve some stress and give yourself a break. Take a step back solve individual problems instead of looking at everything at once. That in itself can be overwhelming at times. If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to contact me

honestly...."honesty is the best policy" i can't say i've been in your position, but i can connect with your pain and fears. i honestly doubt that a good friend will turn away from you, if they ever do then they aren't the right friend for you and you need to find better one's, the same goes with guys. in all honesty when you open up a new chapter in your life and look back upon all of this, it only makes you a stronger, and better person. some of the greatest people in the world came from the hardest of lives only to prevail, when things got rough. for some it takes longer than others and it may not be fair but think of it this way... when you hold on and stick through it, you'll have a greater story to your life than a person who didn't have to go through some hardships. i'm the kind of guy that would give you that hug if i could. but i also could use someone to talk to, life been hitting me pretty hard as well. but keep your head up, because it's a long roller coaster of a ride call Life

oh my gosh i swear we are like the same person, i feel EXACTLY the same way. my boyfriend always wants me to open up to him, but i tell him its best if i dont. if i open myself up he will see the deep dark inside of me that i dont let anyone see, and i know he will just run away.

Your right some it is best to talk with poeple and you do no ever one need some one to talk to

Listening is to be recommended. A partner initially will generally make inconsequential chat, however encourage S/he, and after a time they will begin to explore deeper topics. I have yet to meet a truly uninteresting person. Once the parameters are set, open up. You will enhance your status and hopefully meet many more people...

I'd like to talk to you..... Perhaps we can help one another. I have the same dilemma w/ finding the right person.

To analyze your situation, you feel lonely and afraid to show who you are because of what you've been going through. Not all people are open minded. But if you don't try to be strong enough to tell anyone what's deep inside of you, you cannot get out of your "self-made shell". Try to break it. You might see the whole world. Imagine, your not the only one who's on that kind of situation. But I believe everyone can break their own prison. The only hindrance is your insecurities. That's the hardest battle you might face in your whole life. But feel free to try to think positive about your life. It's worth it in the long run. And, go out w/ your friends. Sometimes they know the answer to yourself. Trust me, they will listen to you.

Hey, look i have gone through such conditions and that was for nearby 7 years so i can understand you mentally, phisically we can chat..................OR communicate. I am giving you my email id. we can communicate via email.

God creates everything and show as that there is everything in everything,and you are so kind person just because you work for the others and do all your best to help your family and that God love you .So believe that you are not alone and be proud of your self.Ware in the same citiation,and i have a strong believe that we could bring happiness to others just be the good example.I will be here and listening to you if you do not mind.

Hi JadiMermaid, sorry to hear that your life is so difficult rite now. I think anyone who does know you should be proud of you for being the strength in your family. Is a shame that you have to work to pay your fathers dept. Is there not some way he can sort out his dept problem ?

If you need help ill be here for you, for you have a shoulder to cry on, and a listening ear ill always be here for you just contact me on my cell 905 213 4259

hello ,i am the guy in accord with the qualification you mentioned in your article.
actually ,i just need a friend to talk with for improving my english grade.
i will glad to listen to you anytime you wanna talk .that's my email ,
i am excepting your reply

Hi Jadie, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you. I know exactly how you feel

You can always talk to me.

I'm sorry that you feel so alone and don't feel that you have anyone to talk to, but I would be more than happy to talk to you, be your friend and be that shoulder to lean on when you are weary. Just tell me what's on your mind and let's see if we can't work it out

Anytime you have something you need to get off of your chest no matter what it is just let me know. I would be more than happy to see if I can help

I'm on the other end im the baby of the family but i can relate fell free to message me if you need to talk

I think I can feel what u feel.. I'm a big sister too, i love to look after my family like you do..but sometime I do feel like what you feel.. You can talk to me if it would make you feel a bit better.. N I'm in a very bad situation with my partner that I can't stand any longer..

:) hi

hello,hw r u?;)

any time!

No one should tell you what to feel or what you should feel. I will say this, I am the youngest of my mother's 3 children. Basically growing up, it was just my sister and I (and mum of course). My Sister is like you, she tries to hide her vulnerability. She feels like she has to be strong for everyone else. I'm the complete opposite (she & I are opposite everything *shrugs*), I'm the emotional one in everyone's eyes, because I do not hide my pain. I do not view myself as overly emotional, what I am however, is a very empathetic person. I easily feel when others are in pain, happy, sick, etc. *shrugs* But you know what, although I admire my sister a lot for her strength, I long for her to share her humanity with me, to confide in me that or when she is hurting, and for her to allow me to in turn on occasion, to be there for her and support her when she is in emotional need. I do not know your family dynamics, but perhaps you aren't giving your loved ones the opportunity to be there and show you their love, and lend you the support you desire. But then, I do not believe that feeling, hurting, or being overwhelmed on occasion is a sign of weakness. I think it takes a lot of strength and bravery to open yourself up to other's. Yes, some people will disappoint you, but you never know who might be amazing and be there for you, if you never give them the chance to show you that they care enough to be there. Also, if you are strong enough to open yourself up to someone, and they turn tail and run (as you state you fear they will), then you are far better off without them in your life. Do you not realize that the true test of friendship isn't those people that stick by your side when times are great and wonderful, But, it is those that are there for you during your darkest of hours that are your true friends. Anyone can be there for the good times, the friendships/relationships to treasure are the ones who can in turn be there for you when you need them during tough times. You sound like a strong, confident woman, so why would you settle for anything less than real/true friendship from others? YOU DESERVE BETTER!! You give constantly to others, grant yourself enough 'value' to believe that you ARE worthy! Worthy of the same support you constantly give others, don't just ask for it, but demand it in return. Otherwise, is that person you are supporting/caring about, that you are pouring your time and energy into, are they really worthy of your support to them? I have been battling illness for about 11yrs, so I have lost touch with all of my previous friends, but I forgive them, as it is very difficult to maintain common ground with a person whose world shrunk down to four white walls, day in, day out. I am partially to blame, because I got tired of trying to always put on a happy face, and no one wants to constantly hear the same depressing stuff over and over. So I "get" lonely and having no one you can speak to about things. But your emotional isolation sounds self imposed, so only you need believe you are worthy enough to break yourself out of it! If you want an ear, a shoulder, a sounding board, I too could use a friend, so please feel free to write me. And remember, YOU ARE Strong, confident, caring, and most of all WORTHY of the same as you give out to others!! Otherwise, you are selling yourself short!

and one more thing if u want someone to talk to im ready contact me you won't loose nothin..

I live the same exact situation as you do everything word by word your too mature and you always back up everyone and when you need someone no one is there for you and life feels so empty and useless and no one is giving you the appreciation and the thanl you tha you so rightfully deserve i know i just described your situation it's just i want u to know that your not alone i wish from all my heart that i could help u more w.g.

You're smart to stay quiet and seek safety in confidentiality. People can only do so much. But I can say I sense you're mature and responsible and applaud you for it. I'm not holding up as well as you right now. But somehow I'm holding back from complete breakdown, for which I thank Him. <br />
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Your despair will pass and life will go on with ups and more downs. There is hope. There is power and beauty outside ourselves, outside this realm of existence. This life has bad things. But the other side offers a new reality. Explore it. There is strength there for you that you can't muster now or any other time. Trust me in this. Being weak in front of God is safe for as one of his people said "When I am weak, then I am strong".