No One Understands How You Feel But Other women Going Through the Same Thing

 I'm having a real hard time with this. Deployment is right around the corner. Actually its May. Im not quite sure how to deal with it. I feel no one understands how i feel. Not even my husband. He has all this training to do.. Gone for 2 weeks here...gone for 3 weeks there. I have been so emotional about him being gone. Even on training missions. Its so hard. I just need advice and support on this and Im sure there is other women out there too...

LUVSaMARINE LUVSaMARINE
22-25, F
6 Responses Jan 11, 2009

My marine has been gone sence January and I can honestly say some days it tough but it has gone by soo fast..he gets to come home mid october an im very excited..he is deployed in Iraq.! Hang in there things get better.!<br />
~Tiffany

it looks like your man is gone by now my husband left in may as well... it hasbeen hard but hey it has been damn near 2 months!! i am sure your staying strong! keep positive!! our hero's will come home soon!!! stay busy and keep positive! there are so many girls going through it to if ya need anyone to talk to you can message me or so many other girls!! my prayers are with your marine!

my boyfriend is leaving for a 7 month deployment in august, hes been home since the beginning of may and ive seen him 3 times, ill see him again over the 96 july 2-6...afer that, ill prob wont see him before his pre-deployment leave. i feel like the time is going by WAY TOO FAST. I met him before he went on a 3 month deployment to Cuba via the internet so i dont officially count that as our first deployment. Now that we have had that physical contact and everything its so much worse. He goes out for training almost every week now for AUC and it sucks but im getting used to it. <br />
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To stay busy im going to be in London doing an internship/college for a semester so i will have 4 months where ill be focused on something else but when i come home, its going to suck. <br />
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I feel ya girl. I dont know how to handle it really either, but Im here for ya! Feel free to message me if you need anything!

my boyfriend is leaving for a year deployment in august and i haven't seen him since jan. 2nd. he's coming home for the last time july 3rd-6th and i know it's going to be hard to say goodbye, but think about it this way, with each day that passes, it puts you closer to being with him again. go around his family if you have the opportunity because they know exactly what you're going through and feeling. and remember, us ladies on here are always here for you! feel free to message me if you need to talk! god bless

my boyfriend is leaving for a year deployment in august and i haven't seen him since jan. 2nd. he's coming home for the last time july 3rd-6th and i know it's going to be hard to say goodbye, but think about it this way, with each day that passes, it puts you closer to being with him again. go around his family if you have the opportunity because they know exactly what you're going through and feeling. and remember, us ladies on here are always here for you! feel free to message me if you need to talk! god bless

My Husband just left on a yr. deployment & oh God I thought how am I gonna do this??...I can't!! but it gets BETTER with time I promise..Just try 2 get involved in everything u possibly can..join supports groups on ur base(etc.) besides I talk 2 him like everyday through phone or email so that's a major PLUS to..Just think abt all the things he's sacrificing being away u know just the small things that we take forgranted & know that as much as ur hurting so is he so try not 2 be so emotional ya know u'll be fine after all u do trust GOD right??!! TAKE CARE!!