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I Miss Him Already

my marines name is david, i love him with all my heart. today he left and we both know that there is a great chance that im pregnant. i dont know what im going to do if i find out that i am pregnant while hes gone. were both young and arent ready for a baby yet so knowing that hes gone and would end up missing a lot is really hard to deal with. i tried talking to him about what would happen if i do end up being pregnant and all he said is that he trusts that ill make the right choices. i just wish he could be here for support. there is still a chance that im not pregnant so i guess i just have to wait and hope for the best. but pregnant or not i know that him being gone is going to be really hard for me. i just keep thinking about all the good times we had together and pray that he returns home safe.

yvlovesdg1227 yvlovesdg1227 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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my husband and i found out i was pregnant a few months before he left. i'd rather have found out rigt before he left for his deployment so he could be here when the baby is born because he wont get back for almost 2 months after our child is here. it is really hard being pregnant, but if you are, send him plenty of pictures the further along you get and it'll be like hes still there. if you have any questions or want to talk feel free to email me :)

Hey im Jennifer...its tru wat brina said its not easy, im 18 and two months pregnant n i also have been havin to go to appts. myself n have been VERY emotional but ive been tryin my best to stay strong..but the worst part about it is my bf deploys a month before i give birth..even though u dont no yet if u r pregnant or not just keep ur head up and stay strong..Message me anytime u wanan talk !

Hey im Jennifer...its tru wat brina said its not easy, im 18 and two months pregnant n i also have been havin to go to appts. myself n have been VERY emotional but ive been tryin my best to stay strong..but the worst part about it is my bf deploys a month before i give birth..even though u dont no yet if u r pregnant or not just keep ur head up and stay strong..Message me anytime u wanan talk !

where did he leave to... deployed or boot or something else? <br />
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i found out i was pregnant while jon (my husband) was in boot camp. it made everything 10 times harder. i went to doctor apps. alone, i was sick everyday and very emotional for the first 3 months, i lost many friends and had to tell both my side and his side of the family alone. i'm not going to sit here and tell you its easy, its definately not. but what i will tell you is that if you are pregnant, make the best of it. it really is a beautiful thing. i never would have thought that a baby would have been my whole life just 6 months ago, but every decision i make and everything i do is because of this baby. my husband left again to cali for another month, then fort leanorwood in mo (where i live so i can visit him) for 3 months after that. since we are married he will get 2 weeks leave when the baby is born. it will be tough if you are pregnant but its not the end of the world, you will come out of the situation 100 times stronger, i promise =] i'm always here if you need to chat and btw my name is brina =]

I was moved by your story and your plight. Wanted to let you know you don't need to be alone. reaching out for support can be a very difficult thing to do. Not having anybody respond can be harder. For what it's worth, from a total stranger, you have my ear. It can all be ok. Hang in there and add me to your Circle if you'd like too.