I have been married for almost 13 years to my husband. This is my third, and I always said "final" marriage. Almost from the get go - I have not felt cherished and respected. I don't feel as though I am a priority and he lies about the stupidest, small, insignificant (sometimes) things. He doesn't abuse me or anything like that. He just doesn't make me feel appreciated like he did when we were dating. It's quite sad, really.