Of Course!For me to cherish and respect someone only to not have the same love and respect back will only result in me turning cold and the other party wondering what could possibly be wrong with me that I am just not treating them the same anymore. Do I hate them now? Have I fallen out of love? Am I cheating?
No, no and no. I just don't like to waste my affections on someone who doesn't seem to appreciate how hard it is for me to, well, be affectionate and reciprocate a little bit. With me, what you give is what you get. If you're not getting something from me, chances are you're not giving it in the first place.