Its Been a Long Time

I have been married for almost 5 years, I am only 31. I have a 4 year old son. I have not been intimate in any form with my husband for almost 4 years. (Yes we have only had sex 1 time since the baby). He says it is because he is on prescription methadone.  I know where he is at all times so I dont think he is cheating. I gained weight while I was pregnant. I want my husband to want me. I try to talk to him he gets mad. He kisses me like he kisses his mother, and that is all the action I have had in almost 4 years. I think about divorce sometimes but I know deep down I really dont want one. but I am a sexual being I need to feel loved, I need to be touched.
sadnlonley sadnlonley
31-35, F
1 Response Jun 18, 2007

Honey, that is too sad. I seem to have the opposite problem. I get the physical stuff, but not the emotional.<br />
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It seems, though, you are getting neither. I would talk to him and tell him about how you feel. Maybe he can get help from his doctor that would beef up his sex drive.<br />
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You have to do something or you'll go crazy over it. I hope you find a solution.