Why Are Men So Opaque?

I spoke to this wonderful man on the phone for four months.  Every conversation was at least two hours.  We arranged to meet at a very public, very stressful event.  I drank too much.  I didn't really do anything wrong, or inappropriate.  We said at the end of the evening that we'd see each other again.  He has not called. It's been a week.  I felt that he was the best man I'd met in years.  He lives far away, and I know that, like me, he's been alone for a long time. I wish he would just say something.
rootsgrrl rootsgrrl
51-55, F
3 Responses May 29, 2007

Do you remember the whole night? Did he have a lot to drink to? If he does not want to answer you,forget about him and move on. Don't waste your time on him if he is not puting any effort in.

I called and left a message on his home voice mail three days ago.

Could be that he doesn't know what to say or how to say it. Have you tried contacting him?