I have been married to this guy way too long. I feel I put in all the effort, finances and positive attitude. What I get is someone who has no interest in me or appreciation for what I give. When I think about the future, I don't think I want to fritter it away on this waste of time. Unfortunately, I hate the idea of splitting my assets after all the hard work I have put into obtaining some amount of financial security. I'm not sure what I'm going to do but some days I just want to scream.