My Husband Is CluelessI'm very frustrated right now. I have pretty much decided that this marriage is over, and I am simply taking time to explore how to end it the best way possible as well as my rights and responsibilities. My oldest son has a birthday in two weeks, and then it is Christmas, so in my mind we will take this slow and let the boys (who are so young) have those moments before we change it all on them.
And I thought that I had been clear with my husband when we were at counselling last week. But he's either digging his head deep into the sand, or he is pretending that if he just carries on as if nothing is wrong, that it really isn't true. And it's making me angry. I"m not sure if I should just be really blunt with him and spell it out in harsh, mean words, or if I should let him keep on thinking there is some hope. I would've thought that he, being the angry, negative person that he is, would've had a really hard week dealing with it all. But no - he seems fairly normal. Slightly hurt that I didn't want to go out tonight to a party with him. Still trying to initiate sex. Saying that he loves me. And here I am - looking at houses for sale in my neighbourhood!
Why? Why oh why does it always have to be the hardest way possible with him?