I've started writing a blog that I haven't posted. For a long time I used to take notes to write down feelings and to capture the many things my wife does (and doesn't do) that makes our marriage unhappy. I've tried for so long to talk, to rationalize...but she is self centered, irresponsible and abusive. the blog helps me get my thoughts out but I just don't know whether to share it and get 'anonymous' feedback. I guess I know what people will say...GO. but it's never easy, especially when you have children, right?