Caught My Husband Remotely Spying On Me On My Computer
About 2 months ago I left my husband of almost 8 years and moved across town. We agreed that we did both still love each other and would continue to be married and spend time together etc. For almost our entire marriage I have suspected that he was snooping on my personal computer. He would bring things up he shouldn't have known about. I asked him about one particular comment and he told me I didn't erase my history so I made it easy for him to find his info. I was pissed!!! What business did he have even being on my laptop let alone searching my history??? Plus, I rarely forget to erase my history it's just a habit. At the time it wasn't that huge of a deal - it wasn't like I was cheating on him or anything like that. So here is where the story gets good. We are now legally separated and I live across town. I was home all alone, it was late at night, I was bored and lonely. So I went on a popular webcam chat site (Not Adult Site!!!) but I met a really nice guy from Australia. I was stupid and what happened after that was pretty shameful and I was feeling quite guilty afterward. Then not 5 minutes after our "conversation" ended I received an email from my husband. All it said was "What are you doing? God is Watching You." I freaked out!!!!!! I replied to his email calling him a lying jerk and that God isn't watching me YOU are. He then responded with well if I am a jerk what does this picture make you? Then there it was!!! An actually screenshot of the entire conversation including the pictures of the webcam. It looked exactly like what I had on my screen just like I was looking at my own computer screen. I was actually relieved because I finally know that I wasn't paranoid. He was in fact spying on me. He installed a spyware program on my computer that hides from anti virus and anti malware software. It disguises itself and runs deep in the background undetected. The program then sends him emails to his personal email with a screen shot of every web page I visit!!!! He has been doing this for years. Now I know. I finally know the truth. The agreement to continue our relationship is entirely over for me. Even though he did email me and tell me that as long as I repent to God, we remarry in a church this time instead of a justice of the peace, and I agree to completely turn my life around he is willing to forgive me for my infidelity. No flippin way. I am now entirely creeped out and now wonder if he is spying on my in other ways? EEK!!!