On the Verge of Separation
We have been facing the same issues for a long time. Some from the beginning and some that developed later. For the first few years I pushed his inabilty to change aside because for the most part we were extremely happy and in love. I have been competely open and communicative the whole time and he hasn't. He is now seeing what he needs to do and making efforts. This is good and I value that but so much damage has been done. You can't just immediately do everything over because a consequence has finally been received. Don't get me wrong,he is an amazing person and not everything that went wrong he could control. The fact is after years of neglect and loneliness I am a broken person. I started turning to EP for friendships and maybe even for some soul searching. Without intending to I have fallen in love as a result.