I Love My Family But Feel Numb

I have a 19 mth baby girl. i had a traumatic birth, was hard to over come,,, if i have. All my wishes and expectations went out the window, unexpected change fro me and him... fight for bond ,... horemonechange, no sex drive. very bad health post birth 19 mths post  natal. Just wish I knew what was real and what is horemones, depression, and post tramatic sress, or what? I love him so much but we do not speak the same language. but i want to so bad! i dont want to make any thing worse but i dont know what to do.

disfeel disfeel
26-30
2 Responses Feb 24, 2010

Its would be good to get checked for postpartum depression, or read some books on it.<br />
It is very common after a traumatic birth experience.<br />
hope things get better soon.

Have you seen a doctor and a psychologist/psychiatrist?<br />
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Hormones can be fixed, and opening up and talking about your feelings can actually allow you to let go and feel better. He, your husband, may feel shut out from your life. If you keep pushing him away, one day he will leave. Intimacy is the most important thing two married folks can share. Not only sex, but real connected love of mind, body and soul. If you are not feeling connected to each other, it's time to fix yourself and your marriage.