I feel that most of my friends don't put the same amount of effort into our relationship as I do. I'm sick of being the one to text first or the one that always has to make the plans. I feel very insignificant.
oodleskaboodles oodleskaboodles
18-21, F
10 Responses Aug 23, 2015

mmm... this happens to me but I have two friends who dont do this

I would never do that to you

They don't.

lighting flashes sparks fly, and in the blink of an eye they have missed seeing. make plans when it suits you for when you justify the effort you put in, leave the pandering to them when the finally realise your worth as a friend.

well don't that just means you are a good friend and they aren't!! i do the same

I had friends like that. But they would often ask other friends to hang out all the time and they weren't even fun to be around anymore so I got tired of asking and stopped. When they got offended I said "Why don't you try inviting me to do something next time?" and they said "I do all the time"...all I could think was "...da fu** are you talking about?!"

I let the friendships fizzle because they actually didn't really care. They liked to pretend they did. They were all kind of sucky friends...

I feel the same way

its so annoying right XD it annoys that i want to talk to them rather than the other way around

they are not friends , they are selfish . so you leave them , and one is your good friend.

I know just how you feel. Sucks, doesn't it? I hope it gets better for you. :)

Thank you very much, I appreciate it