I Don't Know What The Answer IsI married a wonderful woman about a year and a half ago. We didn't have a lot of money so we did a low key wedding where it was pretty much the two of us. My parents ended up coming as well. A few months later we were able to go on a honeymoon and my mother took care of our cat for us while we were gone. While we were gone my mother let my sister in. While my sister was here she stole all my wife's jewlery. A few days after we came back we discovered a significant portion of it was missing. We suspected my sister because of pervious comments like I like to go upstairs and look at your clothes and I like to go upstairs and see your cat. I confronted her on it and she denied it and my mother stood up for her until I told my mother she tried to borrow money from me for an abortion. Then I found out she had been on heroin and stealing from my parents for two years. I filed a police report and went to every pawn shop in a 50 mile radius of where we live. I found all 30 of the 35 items. We took her to court, she got a slap on the wrist, and my wife got her things back that I was at least able to find. I had a security system installed and changed the locks to my house. Aside from my wife talking about this constantly since July 2010 we haven't had an incident.
Here we are in April 2011 and we have our first child. The labor was 30 hours and full of staffing issues at the hospital. So my wife is tramatized about that. Baby is healthy though. While we were at the hospital my mother asked if there was anything we needed. We needed dog food and we were coming home on Easter so the vet's office wouldn't have been open. My mom picked up the food for us. When I picked up the food there was a hole in the bag. (I should also mention that my sister still lives with my parents). Two days later after giving my dog the food she breaks out in hives. Constant visits to the doggie ER and what not. I call my mom to ask if anything could have happened to the food and she said no. When I asked if my sister could have done anything she got mad and told me to never call again. My father came over and told me he was done with me and my family. He apologized a few days later and my mom is trying to make ammends. My wife will not let it go and wants nothing to do with them. I'm stuck choosing between my parents and my wife. My wife and I are constantly fighting. I feel she has turned into this different person and I don't know who she is anymore.
j21043 31-35, M 6 Responses 1 May 14, 2011