Naturally Thin And More Of A Social Eater

How do I explain it? My last exbf ate so much...he weighed over 200 lbs. I ate about the same amount he would and it just didn't make sense why he maintained his weight and I couldn't gain. I am pretty sure it's my metabolism. I eat more than the average person even at Thanksgiving but somehow I cannot gain weight. I have realized that I do eat much more around family and friends than just on weekdays where I don't really have time to eat enough but I seriously never starve myself these days. Now about 6 months ago when I broke up with my bf I definitely didn't have my normal appetite and did loose weight so maybe it's just going to take me longer to put that weight back on. I don't want to eat fat like most people do so it is an uphill battle to gain it. I am also lactose intolerant so please don't advise me to drink milkshakes daily plus that isn't healthy. I care about my health. I'm not bitching for those of you who wished you had my problem and it really is just as emotionally painful as those of you who cannot loose weight, plus it is a more rare situation and no I don't want to slow my metabolism down or take medication to work on my hyperthyroid....I like being thin just wish I could gain about 15 lbs.....maybe drinking more water will help. It can't hurt to try huh?
Owleeeeease7 Owleeeeease7
36-40, F
Mar 25, 2013