Letting The Past Go
When everyone advises you to leave the past behind and concentrate on the future, it is not always so easy. The past is a great part of who we are now and very hard to forget if it haunts you at times. Some things are very hard to get past no matter how hard you try. I know relationship wise what has happened in the past but it is so difficult today with all the new technology i.e., phones, computers, etc., and so much is hidden even though you know it is going on. That makes it even worse. The problem is having people in your life you can trust. I am decent, loving and a trustworthy person and let personal issues affect my life more than I should. I am working on that and need peace in my life desperately instead of continuous drama with Peter Pan type people who refuse to grow up, or know-it-all people who are more screwed up than you are. Everyone is a psychologist, right? I have also noticed that the people who try to give you the most advice never take their own and they can't take responses that do not agree with theirs. I want to SHARE dialog and not have to spend so much time listening to lectures about how people think you should run your life rather than ever taking the time to just listen when you need it the most. The past is definitely prologue!